Tuesday, December 25, 2012

Walls of Protection




The holidays seem to be a more susceptible time than usual for our moods to be on an emotional roller coaster. The words and actions of your close associates, family members, and friends can affect you profoundly, instilling within you an ever-changing tableau of emotions. Your moodiness can dismay and distress you, distracting you from your purpose and eventually causing you to retreat into solitude. Yet avoiding this lonely, upsetting fate can be as simple as building a powerful wall of healing light that prevents harmful outside emotional energy from intruding upon your soul and interfering with your feelings or thoughts. Building this wall of healing will likely help you feel secure and levelheaded once this invisible barrier is in place.

Acknowledging that the emotions experienced by the people with whom we share our environments need not have an effect on our own peace of mind allows us to modulate our sensitivity as necessary. When we erect a temporary wall between ourselves and those who have the potential to hurt us unintentionally by impacting our moods, we can interact with these individuals without sacrificing our own feelings of wellbeing. Our relationships remain strong in the face of adversity because we are not subject to the empathetic shifts in mindset that might otherwise render us unable to function. And we no longer become overly sensitive when confronted by individuals whose coarseness or thoughtlessness could potentially cause us distress. Your vulnerability will vanish when you raise a protective wall that shields you from emotional harm.

 

Thursday, November 1, 2012




Step Out of Your Box



I want to encourage each of you in this room today to think big, but to do small things with great love as well! We need not wait for huge, cosmic solutions to the needs in our world today. If we do we’ll never do anything. The fact is, we can’t love the whole world at once. But we can love individuals and communities of people as God gives opportunities… that is, if we are insightful and courageous enough to take those opportunities! 

So, here is your opportunity to make a difference in your community. Here is your opportunity for God to use you! The fact is God chooses to do miracles through ordinary people like each of us, as we are willing to be used by Him. It’s all about how God can use each one of us, right where we are, as long as we are willing to break out of the boxes that bind us! 

Most of us gravitate toward boxes. It’s human nature. We seek what is comfortable and familiar. Sometimes we don’t want to move beyond the parameters of what we’ve always done. 

But Jesus is not one for boxes. He broke out of the tomb that held Him. He freed His friend Lazarus too. He threw the money lenders boxes right out of the Temple. In His earthly ministry He constantly pierced people’s puffy conventions and challenged their earthly comforts, luring them toward the risky business of eternal comfort.  He challenged the rich young ruler to give up the wealth that defined and confined him. He wooed the woman at the well to be free of the sin that bound her. 

And in one of the passages I love most, He called His disciples to “put out into the deep water.” In Luke 5, we are told that Christ’s friends had been in the shallows, and that’s where they wanted to stay.

“Come,” Jesus said.

Grumbling, they rowed to where the water was deep, and the lake was wide. They were in over their heads. Jesus rocked their boats. 

And then the shimmering fish leapt into their nets, the men strained to haul in the catch, and Peter fell at Jesus’ feet, overwhelmed by the power of the living God. 

In our own journeys with Jesus, is not the dynamic the same? He calls us further than we would choose to go on our own. Many times our journey does not conform to our acceptable parameters of what we are willing to trust. I have found time and time again in my life, that  If I had stuck with what was familiar and had stayed on solid ground, I would have missed the adventure that followed. 

That’s what Jesus does!  He woos us constantly to come farther in and farther up, to dive deeper into the river of His grace. Sometimes we resist. We like comfort and the illusion of being in control. But if we stick with what is familiar, we box our faith. It becomes human enterprise rather than godly exercise.
 
But if we take even the smallest steps of willingness…

“Oh Lord, I know not what lies ahead. I can’t control it. But I trust You!”…then we break out of the box! 

Then God takes us on new adventures we could have never imagined! 

Are you ready to make a difference?

Are you ready to be used by God?
 
For Speaking Availablity Contact:
Allen Tanner
941-779-7335
 

 

Thursday, October 18, 2012


 


Feeling Pain….What do You Do?
 

In watching the way people respond to pain, difficulties and challenges, there is one thing we all have in common – and that is aversion to sitting in an uncomfortable place. When the going gets tough we simply want to run. Perhaps part of that nature is related to our limbic system and the fight or flight reactions we display when we feel threatened.

But as spiritual students this cannot be a justification for our behavior because – if we know in our souls that there is only One God – how is it possible that we can be threatened by anything or anyone? In other words – at some point in time, our spiritual consciousness must supersede our reptilian brain’s dream of separation.

The truth is that no one has died of emotional pain or difficult circumstances. Yet, we often feel so uncomfortable that we’re compelled to put into action dozens of habit behaviors that we have cultivated over the years to make ourselves feel safe.

Some of those actions might be: busying behaviors (burying ourselves in work, repetitively cleaning the house, keeping the TV on to not hear ourselves think, etc), addictive and zoning-out behaviors (drinking, drugs, sex, etc), and/or defensive behaviors (blaming, accusing, pushing people away, seeking friends to align with our point of view, etc).

When we take the time to simply sit with the way we’re feeling, with all our anger, fears, resentments, frustrations and angst, we come to a place of acceptance of what we are experiencing. We recognize that it doesn’t feel pleasant – as no fear-based emotions feel “good” – but at the same time we see that our feelings are not bad things, they are indicators of the point of view we are approaching life from, how we are thinking and perceiving.

Armed with this realization we can look forward to our pain as it is the perfect alarm system to alert us that a change has to be made in our lives. First and foremost the change that needs to be made is inside of us, and second, we make external changes if necessary.

It’s about cultivating a new relationship with pain – learning to not be afraid of it – to appreciate the value it has in our process of self-growth and awareness. If we can shift our point of view to see pain in this way, we’ll avoid many harmful behaviors that we sabotage ourselves with and we’ll be able to have more clarity around difficult situations. 

If we avoid sitting with our pain, then we avoid sitting with the situation and we’ll never have clarity or truth about the causation of our suffering.
 
                                                            
It’s critical that we develop the ability to sit still deeply within our feelings, honoring our process – and at the same time being able to have a sense of humor about the intricacies of life. Without a sense of humor, our spiritual path and life becomes dour, heavy and a burden to bear.

In addition, if we always see our pain as bad – we will feel guilty and punish ourselves for feeling that way, and that is not the place we want to be coming from. As spiritual beings I feel we are meant to be happy, live authentically and fully, and to explore who we are through our creative expression.

I encourage you to embrace your pain and stop suffering it. Perhaps from this point of view – no pain, no gain has some truth! See it, learn from it, move through it and finally – have gratitude for it!
 
Allen Tanner is a Chaplain and Crisis Counselor.  He is the founder and CEO of Chaplain & Counseling Services Inc. in Nashville. He is an inspirational and motivational speaker who speaks on a variety of topics. For more information contact Allen at: chaplaintanner@yahoo.com, www.chaplaintanner.blogspot.com
 


 
“Ducks Quack…Eagles Soar”
 

As I was preparing a presentation I came across a story that I had in my files that I would like to share with you.  It is my hope that it will inspire you to be like an eagle and soar above the crowd.

No one can make you serve others well – that’s because great serving is a choice. Harvey Mackay tells a wonderful story about a cab driver that proved this point. He was waiting in line for a ride at the airport. When a cab pulled up, the first thing Harvey noticed was that the taxi was polished to a bright shine. Smartly dressed in a white shirt, black tie, and freshly pressed black slacks, the cab driver jumped out and rounded the car to open the back passenger door for Harvey.

He handed my friend a laminated card and said: “Hello. I’m Wally, your driver. While I’m loading your bags in the trunk, I’d like you to read my mission statement.”
 
Taken aback, Harvey read the card. It said: Wally’s Mission Statement: To get my customers to their destination in the quickest, safest and cheapest way possible in a friendly environment. This blew Harvey away. Especially when he noticed that the inside of the cab matched the outside. Spotlessly clean!

As he slid behind the wheel, Wally said, “Would you like a cup of coffee? I have a thermos of regular and one of decaf.” My friend said jokingly, “No, I’d prefer a soft drink.” Wally smiled and said, “No problem. I have a cooler up front with regular and Diet Coke water and orange juice.” Amazed, Harvey said, “I’ll take a Diet Coke.”

Handing him his drink, Wally said, “If you’d like something to read, I have The Wall Street Journal, Time, Sports Illustrated and USA Today.” As they were pulling away, Wally handed my friend another laminated card, “These are the stations I get and the music they play, if you’d like to listen to the radio.

And as if that weren’t enough, Wally told Harvey that he had the air conditioning on and asked if the temperature was comfortable for him. Then he advised Harvey of the best route to his destination for that time of day. He also let him know that he’d be happy to chat and tell him about some of the sights or, if Harvey preferred, he would be quiet and leave him with his own thoughts.

“Tell me, Wally,” my amazed friend asked the driver, “have you always served customers like this?”

Wally smiled into the rear view mirror. “No, not always. In fact, it’s only been in the last two years. My first five years driving, I spent most of my time complaining like all the rest of the cabbies do. Then I heard someone tell this story that changed my life. 

That if you get up in the morning expecting to have a bad day, you’ll rarely disappoint yourself. So, “Stop complaining! Differentiate yourself from your competition. Don’t be a duck. Be an eagle. Ducks quack and complain. Eagles soar above the crowd.”

“Well, that hit me right between the eyes,” said Wally. “This was really talking about me. I was always quacking and complaining, so I decided to change my attitude and become an eagle. I looked around at the other cabs and their drivers. The cabs were dirty, the drivers were unfriendly, and the customers were unhappy. So I decided to make some changes. I put in a few at a time. When my customers responded well, I did more.”

“I take it that has paid off for you,” Harvey said.

“It sure has,” Wally replied. “My first year as an eagle, I doubled my income from the previous year. This year I’ll probably quadruple it. You were lucky to get me today. I don’t sit at cabstands anymore. My customers call me for appointments on my cell phone or leave a message on my answering machine. If I can’t pick them up myself, I get a reliable cabbie friend to do it and I take a piece of the action.”

Wally was phenomenal! He was running a limo service out of a Yellow Cab. I have probably told that story to more than 50 cab drivers over the years, and only 2 took the idea and ran with it; whenever I go to their cities, I give them a call. The rest of the drivers quacked like ducks and told me all the reasons they couldn’t do any of what I was suggesting. Wally the Cab Driver made a different choice: He decided to stop quacking like ducks and start soaring like eagles.  

Each day you have a choice: Get up in the morning expecting to have a bad day or get up expecting a wonderful day. The old saying, “Smile and the whole world smiles with you” can be true if you decide each morning to make the best of the day ahead. And remember – Ducks Quack, Eagles Soar!

~Author Unknown

Allen Tanner is a Chaplain and Crisis Counselor.  He is the founder and CEO of Chaplain & Counseling Services Inc. in Nashville. He is an inspirational and motivational speaker who speaks on a variety of topics. For more information contact Allen at:  chaplaintanner@yahoo.com, www.chaplaintanner.blogspot.com
 

 

Tuesday, August 21, 2012

Alignment and Shared Vision in Achieving Goals


Do you wish you had the ability to inspire people into action so they could more easily create greater success and rewarding results? Would you like to know how to foster willing cooperation, ways that everyone enjoys?

Whether you already have good corporate communication skills, you’re taking a corporate communication course and are practicing what you’re learning, or if you realize it’s time to look into new way of communication, this article will help you take your corporate communication to the next level by learning to create alignment with other people.

What do I mean by alignment, and how can you create it? Read on to find out

Alignment – It’s Not Just for Tires

If you’re like most people, it’s likely that the only time you think about alignment is during your regular car maintenance. While that’s not the “alignment” that I am talking about here, it does operate on the same principle.

In order for your car to function at its best, it’s important that your tires are aligned – that they’re all moving in the same direction. The same is true for any corporate relationship; they’ll be at their best when the people involved are aligned and moving in the same direction toward a result that is desired by everyone.

What I am talking about here is not about improving your communication skills or just learning new listening techniques. Establishing effective corporate communication, or any interaction where people need to work together to create the best outcome, begins with creating alignment.

Think about it this way: in life, we go about the activity of our lives, heading in our own directions while we’re trying to achieve our own results. At the same time, we are all inter-connected with each other. As we try to achieve the results we want, these interconnections put limits on how far we can go in our direction without the involvement of others.

However, when we have alignment with others about what we want and we start sharing the same vision, it makes it much easier to cooperate with the others involved to get our desired outcomes. Alignment opens the way for mutual satisfaction and greater success.

The First Step is Internal Alignment

Before you can create alignment with someone else, you need to identify and be able to express what’s most important to you about the outcome you want. To do this, you’ll need to identify the underlying values hidden within your desired outcome.

As an example, perhaps your team tends to come late to meetings and this impacts your ability to accomplish the objectives of the meeting. So you want everyone in the office to show up 10 minutes before a meeting starts. When you dig down to find the hidden value, you might discover that consideration is very important to you, or you might highly value efficiency and effectiveness. Just remember, within every desired outcome there are values that motivate you to want that in the first place.

Key Points for an Alignment Conversation

Once you identify your own underlying values, it’s time to discover the values that you share within the team, partnership or group. You start this discovery process by expressing the values you’ve identified as important to you in your work environment. Then you ask if those things are also important to the others involved, and if they would be willing to explore ways to create that kind of experience.

As you start the alignment conversation, it’s important to remember to keep it as strategy-free as possible. During this beginning stage, I suggest that you make an agreement with the other person to try and identify what’s important to you about the issue at hand, such as starting meetings on time, before you figure out any strategies to get the specifics of what you want. Once you’ve agreed upon your shared vision, there will be plenty of time to move on to the specifics of how to reach your goals.

It’s also wise if you and the other person, or group, agree to avoid spending time talking about the failures of the past. (Bringing up the past can be useful, but only if it is done to understand the values that may have been missing in the past, but not to assign fault or to justify your skepticism.)

Some other things to include in the alignment conversation include:

 A willingness to negotiate strategies that are mutually agreeable
 A commitment to let go of judgments and criticisms
 An agreement to celebrate all wins that come from this conversation


Putting Alignment Conversations to Work

Alignment conversations are the process of discovering your shared values and creating a shared vision. The shared vision you create might be something like: having a more harmonious working relationships, being more effective, or increasing productivity.

Once you are sharing the same vision, you’re now working toward the same end result — the big picture of what you all want. This will make it easier to create situations that produce results that everyone will enjoy. Once you’ve define your shared vision, you’re ready to effectively negotiate strategies to achieve your desired results.

When everyone is making agreements from a shared vision, you’ll start rolling down the road to cooperation and teamwork with far fewer bumps than you encountered before. Alignment and shared vision are the foundation of cooperation and teamwork that will increase productivity and create rewarding results for everyone involved.


Contact Information:
Allen Tanner
chaplaintanner@yahoo.com
www.chaplaintanner.blogspot.com
941-779-7

Sunday, August 19, 2012

How Do You Communicate In Your Workplace?


Taking the First Step
Have you ever found yourself in a repeat pattern of dissatisfaction in your work relationships? Do you long for improved productivity or synergy with your team, or in the level of support or respect you receive from your boss or co-workers?
Considering that most of us spend a third of our day working, commuting, or thinking about work or commuting, why wouldn't we want these things?
The first step is to take a look at yourself - recognizing your own habitual thinking and behavior that may be keeping you from the workplace experience you want. Even if we change jobs altogether, these habitual patterns are likely to surface again and again.
Learning to connect with your behavior at the level of needs is a way to step out of our habitual ways of reacting. As we identify, time and time again, the needs that were and were not met by our actions, particularly in situations where we reacted habitually, space opens within us to act differently in the future.
For example, let's say you react habitually to a co-worker's remark. Next time this happens, instead of looking outward (with blame, judgment of your co-worker, or a search through the want ads), take a look at yourself.
You might discover your reaction was not in harmony with your values. You might inquire into the need you were seeking to meet by your reaction - such as respect, acknowledgment, or support -- and alternately what need was not met when you responded this way. The natural result of this inquiry is the question, "How might I do it differently the next time to better meet my needs?"
This week, pause to recognize one habitual reaction you have with a co-worker, boss or person your serving. Ask yourself if this reaction is in harmony with your values.What needs were met or not met by this reaction? Ask yourself if this reaction is in harmony with your values. What needs were met or not met by this reaction?

Tuesday, August 14, 2012

Compassionate Health Care Workshop



It's Time to Address the Real Crisis in Health Care

Now that U.S. policymakers are tackling the first major health care policy reform in history, it’s also time to take a candid look at the dysfunctional culture that has such a dire effect on the quality of patient care. In this engaging workshop, Allen Tanner, MAC, Mdiv, CPE, CAAP, leverages more than twenty-five years of counseling, health, and wellness experience to do just that.

From domination-style management, fear and judgment-based practitioner relationships, and a poignant separation between physical, mental, and emotional care, the costs of these factors are enormous. Tanner argues that the most effective way to evolve this problematic culture is to shift the language used by those providing care.

Through real-world stories and practical examples, Tanner demonstrates the profound effectiveness of Compassionate Caring Communication. When applied this creates lasting, positive improvements in patient care and the workplace environment. If you’re a health care administrator, nurse, physician, mental health practitioner, or anyone who cares about creating a more compassionate — and thereby more effective — health care system, then you should attend this workshop.

Learn a practical, effective framework to:

 Reduce health care staff burnout and turnover
 Create a culture of mentorship and learning
 Transform nurse-to-nurse and nurse-to-physician hostility
 Compassionately defuse "problem patients"
 Reconnect to your passion for exceptional patient care
 Effectively address systemic problems as they arise

"Compassionate Health Care teaches honesty without fear, responsibility without blame, and power without exploitation."

For more information
Contact:
Allen J. Tanner
941-779-7335
chaplaintanner@yahoo.com

Monday, August 13, 2012

America Experiences Yet Another Act...Of Senseless Violence !!



I would like to express my deepest sympathy and sorrow to the victims of the shooting at the Sikh Temple in Oak Creek, Wis., and to everyone in America who has been traumatized by this tragic event. In a nation founded on life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness, it is appalling that so many, particularly people of color, are denied that first, fundamental right, to enjoy a full life. As the “Asian & Pacific Islander American Health Forum” stated, “This attack was motivated by hate, xenophobia, and racism. It violated the civil rights, safety, and security of innocent and ordinary people and was an attack against all Americans.” I stand united with the Sikh American community and all of us who oppose all forms of hatred, violence and intolerance.

This hate crime has occurred when so many are still reeling from the shooting in Aurora, Colo. Nearly twenty people killed in mass incidents over the span of sixteen days, in addition to the less-publicized killings that have occurred in the United States. There are nearly three hundred each week.

We must consider the toll on our national psyche, the collective trauma that occurs when we witness violence on our streets, in our homes and on the news. While many are shocked and seek answers for how this could have happened, we can no longer ignore how predictable mass murder has become in America. As a society, we have once again stood by and allowed this to happen. But we do know how to prevent violence. Just last week, in the “Huffington Post,” written in response to the Aurora shooting, Larry Cohen stated that “violence will not abate on its own. Now is the time for action, as well as mourning. Part of the healing process must be to make our communities safer.”

As community members, public health leaders and supporters of health equity, we must develop and implement strategies that will reduce the likelihood of future tragic events from ever occurring. Unless we take action, this latest tragedy will surely not be the last. As a nation, we must not only renounce the deplorable hate crime in Oak Creek, but move toward a society which keeps people safe, in the first place. I urge everyone to call on our leaders to re-evaluate our national priorities and commit to keeping everyone, in all communities, safe from preventable harm.
Allen J. Tanner is a crisis counselor with Chaplain & Counseling Services Inc. in Nashville. He has worked with law enforcement agencies on the shootings at the Sikh temple, the Aurora theater, Virginia Tech and Columbine High School.
Contact Information:
Allen J. Tanner
Chaplain & Counseling Services, Inc.
www.chaplaintanner.blogspot.com
chaplaintanner@yahoo.com
941-779-7335

Monday, July 30, 2012

Unravel the Worry Knot: For Today Only...


Allen J. Tanner


When I was growing up, I was exposed to some interesting expressions of worry. I learned that you could “worry someone to death”, that I could be “worried sick” about something, and that a dog “worries a bone”. Someone could be a “worry wart”, while someone else “fussed and worried” over the preparation of a meal.

I grew up to find that people carry “worry stones” as a way to focus their nervous ticks. Some cultures create “worry dolls” as a place to store their fears and cares.
So what is worry - and why do we do it?

Personally, I think worry is an unfortunate twist on a good thing. Part of what makes us unique as humans is our ability to learn from past adventures and project the lessons into the future. To our ancestors, survival depended on our ability to take what they learned from last year’s hard winter to prepare for the next hard winter. To remember where the big cats will be looking for dinner and not pitch camp there. This is the part that is a good thing.

The unfortunate twist is when you look back at the last hard winter and, instead of seeing how to make next year better, you get really afraid of the next winter coming up. Instead of, “Ah, that is the hunting ground of big cats so I should not camp there”, you start to be afraid that the big cats are everywhere, and no place is safe.

It is unlikely that our ancestors spent a lot of time worrying about the big cats. They just did what was prudent and moved. To spend time in fear of the big cats behind them might cause them to miss the cobra in the path ahead. What our ancestors understood, and what we seem to have forgotten, is that while awareness of danger can help you prepare, fear of it can paralyze you.

And fear is what feeds worry. Like wind feeds a wildfire, fear can send thoughts raging out of control.

I remember reading a particular commentary on the Yoga Sutras, dealing with the special yogic power of time travel. The commentator noted that time travel is not difficult. As humans, we are mostly reliving the past or anticipating the future - we are always time-traveling! The true “special power” is staying grounded in this moment.

Somewhere along the way, we stopped using these lessons from the past as a way to avoid problems in the future so that we can live in a peaceful present moment. Our fears toss us mercilessly from the past to the future and back again, too paralyzed and habituated to this state to simply get off of the time-travel ride.

For today only: Do not worry. I have also seen this precept written: “Worry not.” Having a mind that tends to think in puns, I immediately envision an actual knot. A worry knot seems a perfect metaphor for a mind in this state, winding tighter and tighter until all it can see is the problem - never the solution.

In fact, the mind becomes the problem.

How do you unravel a worry knot? You don’t. Take a lesson from Alexander the Great, the fastest way to unravel a Gordian knot of worry is to slice cleanly through it with the sword of present moment awareness. Take a breath and take stock. If necessary, take action. But for today only, do not worry.

Friday, July 13, 2012

Healthcare Communication and Team Collaboration


Allen Tanner MAC,MDiv,CS,CAAP,CPE

Definition of Communication:

Webster’s Dictionary defines communication as “the imparting or interchange of thoughts, opinions, or information by speech, writing, or signs.” It is important to consider that communication is not just verbal in form. One study states that 93 percent of communication is more affected by body language, attitude, and tone, leaving only 7 percent of the meaning and intent based on the actual words said. Whereas the spoken words contain the crucial content, their meaning can be influenced by the style of delivery, which includes the way speakers stand, speak, and look at a person. However, critical information is often transmitted via handwritten notes, e-mails, or text messages, which can lead to serious consequences if there is miscommunication.

Definition of Healthcare Collaboration:

Collaboration in health care is defined as health care professionals assuming complementary roles and cooperatively working together, sharing responsibility for problem-solving and making decisions to formulate and carry out plans for patient care. Collaboration between physicians, nurses, and other health care professionals increases team members ‘awareness of each others’ type of knowledge and skills, leading to continued improvement in decision making.

Effective teams are characterized by trust, respect, and collaboration. I am a great proponent of teamwork. Teamwork, I believe, is endemic to a system in which all employees are working for the good of a goal, who have a common aim, and who work together to achieve that aim. When considering a teamwork model in health care, an interdisciplinary approach should be applied. Unlike a multidisciplinary approach, in which each team member is responsible only for the activities related to his or her own discipline and formulates separate goals for the patient, an interdisciplinary approach coalesces a joint effort on behalf of the patient with a common goal from all disciplines involved in the care plan. The pooling of specialized services leads to integrated interventions. The plans of care takes into account the multiple assessments and treatment regimens, and it packages these services to create an individualized care program that best addresses the needs of the patient. The patient finds that communication is easier with the cohesive team, rather than with numerous professionals who do not know what others are doing to manage the patient. Below in “Table One,” I have compiled what I believe are a few of the components found in a successful teamwork model.

It is important for me to point out to you at this time that fostering a team collaboration environment may have hurdles to overcome such as:

 Additional time
 Perceived loss of autonomy
 Lack of confidence or trust in decisions of others
 Clashing perceptions
 Territorialism

However, most of these hurdles can be overcome with an open attitude and feelings of mutual respect and trust. It will be through this improved teamwork and communication that improved clinical effectiveness and job satisfaction will emerge.

Table One: Components of Successful Teamwork:
 Open communication
 Non - Punitive environment
 Clear direction
 Clear and known roles and processes for team members
 Respectful atmosphere
 Shared responsibility for team success
 Appropriate balance of member participation for the goal at hand
 Acknowledgment and processing of conflict
 Clear specifications regarding authority and accountability
 Clear and known decision-making procedures
 Regular and routine communication and information sharing
 Enabling environment, including access to needed resources
 Mechanism to evaluate outcomes and adjust accordingly

It is no surprise that communication, collaboration, and teamwork do not always occur in clinical settings. It is also no surprise that many health care workers are use to poor communication and teamwork, as a result of a culture of low expectations that has developed in many health care settings. This culture, in which health care workers have come to expect faulty and incomplete exchange of information, leads to errors because even conscientious professionals tend to ignore potential red flags and clinical discrepancies. They view these warning signals as indicators of routine repetitions of poor communication rather than unusual, worrisome indicators.
Positive Outcomes of Effective Communication:
Although “poor communication” can lead to tragic consequences, on the contrary, “effective communication” can lead to the following positive outcomes:

 Improved information flow
 More effective interventions
 Improved safety
 Enhanced employee morale
 Increased patient and family satisfaction
 Decreased lengths of stay

Implementing systems to facilitate team communication can substantially improve quality. Effective communication among staff encourages effective teamwork and promotes continuity and clarity within the patient care team. At its best, good communication encourages collaboration, fosters teamwork, and helps prevent errors.

Barriers to Effective Communication:

Health professionals tend to work autonomously, even though they may speak of being part of a team. Efforts to improve health care delivery, safety, and quality are often jeopardized by the communication and collaboration barriers that exist between clinical staff. Although every organization is unique, the barriers to effective communication that organizations face have some common themes. In “Table Two” below I have indicated some of those common barriers to inter-professional collaboration.

Table Two:

Common Barriers to Inter-professional
Communication and Collaboration:

 Personal values and expectations
 Personality differences
 Hierarchy
 Disruptive behavior
 Culture and ethnicity
 Generational differences
 Gender
 Historical inter-professional and intra-professional rivalries
 Differences in language and jargon
 Differences in schedules and professional routines
 Varying levels of preparation, qualifications, and status
 Differences in requirements, regulations, and norms of professional education
 Fears of diluted professional identity
 Differences in accountability, payment, and rewards
 Concerns regarding clinical responsibility
 Complexity of care
 Emphasis on rapid decision-making

The barriers indicated in above can occur within disciplines, most notably between physicians and residents, surgeons and anesthesiologists, and nurses, nurse managers, and case managers. However, most often the barriers manifest between nurses and physicians. Even though doctors and nurses interact numerous times a day, they often have different perceptions of their roles and responsibilities as to patient needs, and thus different goals for patient care. One barrier compounding this issue is that because the United States is one of the most ethnically and culturally diverse countries in the world, many clinicians come from a variety of cultural backgrounds. In all interactions, cultural differences can exacerbate communication problems. For example, in some cultures, individuals refrain from being assertive or challenging opinions openly. As a result, it is very difficult for nurses from such cultures to speak up if they see something wrong. In cultures such as these, nurses may communicate their concern in very indirect ways. Culture barriers can also hinder nonverbal communication. For example, some cultures ascribe specific meaning to eye contact, certain facial expressions, touch, tone of voice, and nods of the head.
Issues around gender differences in communication styles, values, and expectations are common in all workplace situations. In the health care industry, where most physicians are male and most nurses are female, communication problems are further accentuated by gender differences. Another common barrier to effective communication and collaboration is hierarchies. Communication failures in the medical setting arise at times from what is referred to as vertical hierarchical differences; this is a concern with upward influence, role conflict, and ambiguity and struggles with inter-personal and intra-personal power and conflict. Communication is likely to be distorted or withheld in situations where there are hierarchical differences between two communicators, particularly when one person is concerned about appearing incompetent, does not want to offend the other, or perceives that the other is not open to communication. Many times this is seen between physicians and nurses or between physicians and case managers. In health care environments characterized by a hierarchical culture, physicians are at the top of that hierarchy. Consequently, they may feel that the environment is collaborative and that communication is open while nurses and other direct care staff perceive communication problems. Hierarchy differences can come into play and diminish the collaborative interactions necessary to ensure that the proper treatments are delivered appropriately. When hierarchy differences exist, people on the lower end of the hierarchy tend to be uncomfortable speaking up about problems or concerns. Intimidating behavior by individuals at the top of a hierarchy can hinder communication and give the impression that the individual is unapproachable. When one person is concerned about appearing incompetent, does not want to offend the other, or perceives that the other is not open to communication. In health care environments characterized by a hierarchical culture, physicians are at the top of that hierarchy. Consequently, they may feel that the environment is collaborative and that communication is open while nurses and other direct care staff perceive communication problems. Hierarchy differences can come into play and diminish the collaborative interactions necessary to ensure that the proper treatments are delivered appropriately. When hierarchy differences exist, people on the lower end of the hierarchy tend to be uncomfortable speaking up about problems or concerns. Intimidating behavior by individuals at the top of a hierarchy can hinder communication and give the impression that the individual is unapproachable.
Staff who witness poor performance in their peers may be hesitant to speak up because of fear of retaliation or the impression that speaking up will not do any good.
Relationships between the individuals providing patient care can have a powerful influence on how and even if important information is communicated. I have seen delays in patient care and recurring problems from unresolved disputes are that were often the by-product of physician-nurse or physician-case manager disagreements. Then question is how common is the trend in which nurses are either reluctant or refuse to call physicians, even in the face of a deteriorating status in patient care. Reasons for this may include intimidation, fear of getting into a confrontational or antagonistic discussion, lack of confidentiality, fear of retaliation, and the fact that nothing ever seems to change. Many of these issues have to deal more with personality and communication style. The major concern about disruptive behaviors is how frequently they occur and the potential negative impact they can have on patient care.

It is time that leaders in both medicine and nursing have an ongoing initiative for the development of a cooperative rather than a competitive agenda to benefit patient care. It is my opinion that a powerful incentive for greater teamwork among professionals is created by directing attention to the areas where changes are likely to result in measurable improvements for the patients they serve together, rather than concentrating on what, on the surface, seem to be irreconcilable professional differences. Think about it for a moment, I think we can agree that it is a fact that most health professionals have at least one characteristic in common, a personal desire to learn, and that they have at least one shared value, to meet the needs of their patients or clients. This is a good place to start.

Known Benefits of Communication and Team Collaboration:

Because of the complexity of medical care, coupled with the inherent limitations of human performance, it is critically important that clinicians have standardized communication tools and create an environment in which individuals can speak up and express concerns. When a team needs to communicate complex information in a short period of time, it is helpful to use structured communication techniques to ensure accuracy. Structured communication techniques can serve the same purpose that clinical practice guidelines do in assisting practitioners to make decisions and take action.

Healthcare Professionals because they are involved in settings where there is a huge variability in circumstances, need to adapt processes quickly, with a quickly changing knowledge base.

Healthcare Professionals must use expert judgment in dynamic settings. The adoption of standardized tools and behaviors is a very effective strategy in enhancing teamwork and reducing risks.

Doctors and nurses often have different communication styles in part due to training. Nurses are taught to be more descriptive of clinical situations, whereas physicians learn to be very concise. Standardized communication tools are very effective in bridging this difference in communication styles.

Michael Leonard, physician coordinator of clinical informatics at Kaiser Permanente, along with colleagues, developed a technique called SBAR (Situation-Background-Assessment-Recommendation.)This technique has been implemented widely at health systems such as Kaiser Permanente. The SBAR technique provides a framework for communication between members of the health care team about a patient’s condition. SBAR is an easy-to-remember tool used to create mechanisms useful for framing any conversation, especially critical ones, requiring a clinician’s immediate attention and action. It allows for an easy and focused way to set expectations between members of the team for what will be communicated and how, which is essential for information transfer and cohesive teamwork. Not only is there familiarity in how people communicate, but the SBAR structure helps develop desired critical-thinking skills. The person initiating the communication knows that before they pick up the telephone, they need to provide an assessment of the problem and what they think an appropriate solution is. Their conclusion may not ultimately be the answer, but there is clearly value in defining the situation. *Table Five, Guidelines for communicating with Physicians Using the SBAR Process explains how to carry out the SBAR technique in detail. The guidelines use the physician team member as the example; however, they can be adapted for use with all other health professionals.

**Table Five SBAR (Situation, Background, Assessment, Recommendation)
SBAR – a technique for communicating critical information that requires immediate attention and action concerning a patient’s condition

 Situation – What is going on with the patient? “I am calling about Mrs. Joseph in room 251. Chief complaint is shortness of breath of new onset.”

 Background – What is the clinical background or context? “Patient is a 62-year-old female post-op day one from abdominal surgery. No prior history of cardiac or lung disease.”

 Assessment – What do I think the problem is? “Breath sounds are decreased on the right side with acknowledgment of pain. Would like to rule out pneumothorax.”

 Recommendation – What would I do to correct it? “I feel strongly the patient should be assessed now. Are you available to come in?”

[Note: Kaiser Permanente, SBAR (Situation, Background, Assessment, Recommendation) tool, 2002. Source for version in this table: Institute for Healthcare Improvement. Guidelines for communicating with physicians using the SBAR process. http://www.ihi.org/IHI/Topics/PatientSafety /SafetyGeneral/ Tools/SBARTechniq ueforCommunicationASituationalBriefing Model.htm. Accessed Nov. 18, 2004.]

**STICC (Situation Task Intent Concern Calibrate) is another type of structured briefing protocol the following five steps are involved:

 Situation: Here's what I think we face.

 Task: Here's what I think we should do.

 Intent: Here's why.

 Concern: Here's what we should keep our eye on.

 Calibrate: Talk to me. Tell me if you don't understand, can't do it, or see something I do not.

We Must Establish a Culture To Support Communication and Team Collaboration:

Effective teams are characterized by common purpose and intent, trust, respect, and collaboration. Team members value familiarity over formality and watch out for each other to make sure mistakes are not made. Health care teams that do not trust, respect, and collaborate with one another are more likely to make a mistake that could negatively impact the quality of patient care.


One of the first crucial steps is organizational commitment and willingness to address the situation. Commitment needs to come from the top down and bottom up, making a statement about the way the organization does business. The rallying point should be around behavioral standards and their relationship to patient care. Addressing defects in communication that affect collaboration, information exchange, appreciation of roles and responsibilities, and direct accountability for patient care are key components of any communication and team building program. Clinical and administrative leaders must set the tone by establishing and adhering to behavioral standards that support agreed-upon code of conduct practices backed by a non-punitive culture and zero-tolerance policy.

The next step in the process is recognition and self-awareness. Organizations must be able to assess the prevalence, context, and impact of behaviors to identify potential opportunities for improvement. Doing an internal assessment will help pinpoint the seriousness of the situation and provide clues to areas that need to be addressed. Assessment information can be gained from formal methods such as incident reports, survey tools, focus groups, department meetings, task forces or committees, direct observation, suggestion boxes, and hot lines. Informal methods such as casual meetings and gossip can also provide valuable surface information and should be evaluated more deeply as to the source, relevance, and significance of the events to determine next steps. In many organizations there are still remnants of reluctance to address the issue head on for fear of antagonizing a prominent surgeon or staff member.

Creating opportunities for different groups to just get together is a highly effective strategy for enhancing collaboration and communication. These group interactions can be either formal or informal. Encouraging open dialogue, collaborative rounds, implementing pre-op and post-op team briefings, and creating interdisciplinary committees or task forces that discuss problem areas frequently provides an upfront solution that reduces the likelihood of disruptive events.

Developing and implementing communication and behavior standards is vital. These standards need to be consistent and universally applied. These standards should become a part of staff competencies with signed agreements to abide by these standards.


Taking action though appropriate intervention strategies is next. On one level, generic educational programs can do a lot to spread the message and teach basic skills necessary to promote effective communication. Appropriate topics should include sessions on team dynamics, communication skills, phone etiquette, assertiveness training, diversity training, conflict management, stress management, and any other courses necessary to foster more effective team functioning and communication flow. Courses should be offered to all staff and employees at the organization: physicians, physicians in training, nurses, nursing students, and all other staff who have patient contact or play a role in the delivery of patient care. For individuals who have consistently exhibited disruptive behavior, education may need to be supported by more focused sessions and specific counseling. I cannot stress enough the importance of promoting and assuring competency training at all levels of the health care team. This is a key factor affecting trust and respect, which have such a strong influence on team collaboration.

Having a clinical champion or early adopter who actively promotes the importance of appropriate behavior, communication, and team collaboration can be an extremely valuable asset. Champions can come from the executive ranks or through the voluntary interest and enthusiasm of other staff members. Co-champions may be even more effective. It may be beneficial having a nurse and physicians (or other health care professional) go through a joint training program together which will help foster mutual cooperation and collaboration between the different disciplines. Follow up and feedback bring closure to the process. It is important to let people know that their input is welcomed, follow-up actions will be taken, and appropriate feedback will be provided.

Conclusions:

Effective clinical practice must not focus only on technological system issues, but also on the human factor. I have attempted to show in this presentation, that good communication encourages collaboration and helps prevent errors. It is important for health care organizations to anticipate possible situations for poor communication and be diligent about offering programs and outlets to help foster team collaboration. By addressing this issue, health care organizations have an opportunity to greatly enhance their clinical outcomes.

Saturday, January 7, 2012

You Deserve to Have Your Dreams Come True

Personal Power
Power is not about exerting our will over others, it is about being in complete truth with yourself
Chaplain Allen Tanner


Many of us have do not understand what personal power means. We have been given the false notion that power is bad and that it is something we use to exert our will upon others. In fact, when our personal power is intact, we are neither overbearing nor meek. We have a clear sense of our strength and the impact we can have on others. This actually enables us to be more sensitive. Personal power is what permits us to work on behalf of our dreams and desires. It allows us to realize that we are worthy and deserve to be heard. In addition, our personal power lets us extend the respect we know that we deserve to the people around us. There is no reason to be afraid or ashamed of fully owning your power.

In the chakra system, the solar plexus is the seat of personal power. One way to evaluate your sense of power is to breathe into this part of the body. If it feels tight or nervous, it is an indication that you may not be fully expressing your power. You can heal this imbalance by expanding the area of the solar plexus with your breath. You can also visualize a bright yellow sun in this part of your body. Allow its heat to melt any tension, and let its light dissolve any darkness or heaviness. Repeating this exercise on a regular basis can restore and rejuvenate your sense of power.

Another way to nurture your personal power is to honor your dreams and desires by making concrete plans to manifest them in the world. Start by making a list of things you want, and let yourself think big. Choose one goal from the list and commit to bringing it to fruition. In addition, break the goal into tasks that you can work on each day. Know that you deserve to have your dreams come true and that you have the power to bring them into being.

Wednesday, January 4, 2012

Everyone Has A Story, Interesting People Everywhere!!

It’s easy to forget sometimes that everyone has a story to tell if we take the time to listen. We are so accustomed to hearing the stories of people in the news that we sometimes lose track of the fact that the random stranger on the bus also has a fascinating story about where they came from and how they got to be where they are. The sheer variety of paths taken in this world, from farmers to CEOs to homeless people to world travelers, is indicative of how much we can learn from each individual. Sometimes the shy, quiet person at work has the most amazing life story and the biggest dreams; it is up to us to take the time to find out.

Some people travel a path of wealth and privilege, while others struggle with only themselves to rely on, and both have great stories to tell. Each person learns lessons, makes choices, and develops a unique perspective, which only they can claim and share. Even two people who have had very similar lives will have slightly different experiences, leading them to a different point of view, so each person remains a treasure trove waiting to be explored. When we take the time to ask questions and listen, we find that every person has a fascinating story to tell and an utterly unique perspective from which to tell it.

Bearing this in mind, we have the opportunity to approach the world around us in a new way. There is never any reason to be bored at a party, or on the bus, or in a conversation with a stranger. When we retain the spark of curiosity and the warmth required to open someone up, we always have in front of us the makings of a great story. All we have to do is ask

The Real Prison

The Real Prison
Chaplain Allen Tanner

Society often reads about correctional facilities and inmates, but many fail to understand what a prison really is. You see the real prison is not the one the outsiders know.

The real prison is different. It's a loneliness, which sinks its teeth into the very souls of men. It's a prison, which is overlooked and unrecorded by newspapers, seldom read about in books, rarely portrayed on the screen; it is a place where people strive to find themselves. It's a place of both hope and hopelessness, the drama of people paying a debt for years, knowing that their debt can never be paid in full. It's a million dreams that never can be fulfilled. It's too many tears without laughter, too much emotional darkness without light. It's a routine that makes living a weary task.

The real prison is more formidable than high walls, fences, and iron bars. It's the bitterness of being without friends; it's the unhappiness of an undisciplined life. Where discipline is neglected, life wanders into bondage--bondage to habits and things that dictates life's direction.
The real prison is a world that does not listen to the cries of many who are begging for friendship. It is a place where people live whose very existence has been forgotten by a world that is unable to accept them...a world that shouts contempt for the mixed up, fumbling society of misfits that are held in its grip.

The real prison is where a worried mothers face studies the face of a son who was once her pride and joy; her heart broken because drugs are destroying him, and there is nothing she can do about it. It’s when a loving grandmother lies silently in her bed at night, crying with a prayer in her heart for the wayward granddaughter she loves and cherishes, It's the constant thought of a friend who has failed you.

This is the real prison. No bars of steel, locked doors, or fences. A person is in a real prison when he forgets that there are other people in this world beside himself, and that they need to be respected also. A person is in a real prison when he cannot be honest with those who believe in him. When a man cannot seek forgiveness, serenity, and peace, and becomes to blind to see God's goodness around him, then that man is in the real prison, because you see, The Real Prison is within the heart of the man

Demoilishing Anger and Resentment

Demolishing Anger’s Walls
Resentment
Allen Tanner
Anger, when channeled into the pursuit of change, can be a useful tool in our emotional palette. Most people experience anger, some more than others. It is when anger has no outlet and morphs into resentment that it carries with it the potential to cause great turmoil. Allowing us to assign blame for the pain we are feeling, thereby easing it, resentment tends to smolder relentlessly just below the surface of our awareness, eroding our peace of mind.
The target of our resentment grows ever more wicked in our minds and we rue the day we first encountered them. But resentment is merely another hue on the emotional palette and therefore within the realm of our conscious control. We can choose to let go of our resentment and to move on with our lives, no matter how painful the event that incited it. Hanging onto resentment in our hearts does not serve us in any way. Successfully divesting ourselves of resentful feelings can be difficult, however, because doing so forces us to mentally and emotionally confront the original source of anger.
When we cease assigning blame, we realize that our need to hold someone or something responsible for our feelings has harmed us. We thought we were coping with our hurt when in fact we were holding onto that hurt with a vice grip. To release resentment, we must shift our attention from those we resent back toward ourselves by thinking of our own needs. Performing a short ceremony can help you quell resentful feelings by giving tangible form to your emotions. You may want to write down your feelings and then burn the paper and close your ceremony by wishing them well.
When you can find compassion in your heart, you know you are on your way to healing. Free of resentment, we have much more energy and attention to devote to our personal development. We can fill the spaces it left behind with unconditional acceptance and joy. And, as a result of our subsequent freedom from resentment, blessings can once again enter our lives as the walls we built to contain our anger have been demolished

The Son Is Always Shining

The Sun Is Always Shining
Remember the Sun
Allen J. Tanner


There are times when gloom or darkness causes us to momentarily lose sight of the light. Although it is at these times when the thought of the sun which God created, can help us. Its warm, glowing rays brighten even our thoughts, and it’s good to remember that despite appearances the sun is shining right now. We may not be able to see it at this very moment, but if clouds block our view, they are only filtering the sun’s light temporarily. If darkness has fallen, we know that the sun is still shining at this very moment somewhere not too far away, and it’s only a matter of time before it will shine on us again.

When we remember that the sun is still shining, we know that things are still in motion in the universe. Even if life feels like it is at a standstill, sometimes all we need to do is have faith and wait for the time when God’s perfect plan is in place. Or we can we can choose to follow the cues of the sun and continue doing our work and shining our light, even when we can’t yet see results. In doing so we exercise our patience, making sure we are prepared when opportunity knocks and all other elements of God’s plan are in their right and perfect places.

The sun also reminds us that our own shining truth is never extinguished. Our light shines within us at all times, no matter what else occurs around us. Though the sun gives us daily proof of its existence, sometimes our belief in our own light requires more time. If we think back, however, we can find moments when it showed itself and trust that we will see it again. Like the sun, our light is the energy that connects us to the movements of the universe and the cycles of life that God created and is present at all times, whether we feel its glow or not

Everyday Miracles

Everyday Miracles:
by Marjorie Kimbrough
Jesus’ healing touch cures man with AIDS
The Rev. Allen Tanner frequently works with the chaplain at the Department of Corrections and was asked to visit with an AIDS patient who had been told he had about three weeks to live. Finding the patient in a semi-comatose state, Tanner decided to spend his time telling the young man a biblical story of healing. The story he chose was that of the woman with the issue of blood (Mark 5:25-34).
Tanner told how the woman was considered unclean because of her bleeding, but how she persevered to touch the hem of Jesus’ garment believing that the act of touching would heal her. He emphasized the fact that the woman had to push and even crawl through the crowd just to get close enough to touch Jesus’ hem. In a like manner, Tanner explained to the young man that he would have to make his journey toward wholeness alone. He would have to push through his troubled mind and find his way to the healing touch that only Jesus could provide.
Obviously, the young man accepted Tanner’s challenge, for within 24 hours he was sitting up and feeling better, and it was confirmed to him that one third of the AIDS virus had vanished from his body. With this news, Tanner knew that the virus eventually would all vanish, for it was his firm belief that God never leaves a job unfinished. Sure enough, over the next two days the final two-thirds of the virus vanished.
The young man returned to prison witnessing to his healing through visualizing touching the hem of Jesus’ garment. He is a living testimony to the miracle power of the living Lord. Miracles happen everyday. Expect yours!
God, make me a witness to your miracle power. Amen.
Marjorie Kimbrough is an award-winning author and lecturer. E-mail mlkimbrough@aol.com.
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